如何利用英语打好人际关系.docx
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如何利用英语打好人际关系
如何利用英语打好人际关系
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简述英语教学与人际关系的影响
作者:
谢寿光
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《外语学法教法研究》xx年第05期
人际关系不仅有自身独特的结构,也有其在运动过程中显示出来的作用和影响。
协调人际关系最重要的原则主要有:
平等原则、诚信原则、礼貌原则、互利原则、人道原则、择善原则、适度原则、相容原则、积极原则、理解原则、自律原则等。
除了把握人际交往的原则外,还应掌握一些技巧和方法。
学习英语的一个重要目的就是使学习者能用英语与人进行交际,而师生间及生生间的人际交际在提高英语学习兴趣及学习成绩上显得尤为重要。
这便是本文的写作意图。
学生在某种意义上都会情不自禁地测试教师的教学方法以便不断地提高自己的学业成绩。
换句话来说,学生就像社会上任何环境中的人一样努力左右着周围的环境。
教师的人际关系在很多方面对学生会产生各种不同程度的影响。
因此,教师应充分利用其正面的影响去推进学生各方面的成长,尤其是学业成绩的提高,而不是出于私人的某个目的去控制学生的行为。
多年前,有专家指出人际关系对周围环境及人产生的五大影响:
1.自控能力及分类价值。
2.隐瞒所被授奖励的能力。
3.本人的权力及威望。
4.人的专业知识或特长。
5.个人的魅力或某种组织或相关群体的会员身份。
根据此专家的意见,所有的人在社会的某种特定环境中均会对人产生某种不同的影响。
在中学英语教学中,课堂教学师生间有五种影响源,这对初为人师者来说尤为重要。
因为这些影响源描述的是,教师如何利用它们的关系来控制课堂气氛。
无庸置疑的是,此间涉及到教师的自身素质,教学技能,学业水平等方面的因素。
有些教师因为有个人的魅力及非凡的领导能力,所以他们对学生有着令人难以置信的人际影响。
例如,他们可以轻易而举地使学生获取重要信息,使学生领会实现自己目的的重要性以及紧急性,责任感,从而达到他们的目的。
教师在使用奖励与强制性的影响的方法上要注意的问题:
1.奖励学生的影响(Rewardinfluence)
教师可控制学生的成绩也可控制学生的各项奖励。
学生可控制自己的行为也可通过自己的行为获取教师的奖励。
2.强制性的影响(Coerciveinfluence)
教师可保留好学生的学业成绩,教师有特权。
同时,也可以加强惩罚力度。
学生有包容心,也有协同行为。
Communicationisjustasbasicasfoodanddrink.
Whilesomepeoplesailaheadusingtheirimpeable(完美的)municationskills,othersstruggletobeunderstood.Here’showyoucanimproveyourmunicationskills
1.UnderstandtheNuancesofCommunication
Communicationhaslongtranscended(超出)verbal(口头的)exchangestobeeaneffectivewayofconnectingwithpeople.Communicationleavesample(广大的)scope(范围)formisinterpretation(曲解),leavinggreaterchunksoftheintendedmeaninglostintranslation.Understandingsuchsubtle(精妙的)nuancesbringsaboutgreaterawarenessinself-improvement.
2.Saywhat’sOnYourMind
Whenitestoconveyingthedesiredmessage,mostpeopleshyawayfromspeakingtheirmindmostlybecausetheyareboggeddownbysocialexpectations.Theykeeppersonalopinionswithdrawnfromtheensuingconversation.Theprimepurposeofbeingabletomunicateeffectivelyistobeabletoexpressyourpersonalopinionsinthegivenmatter
3.RetainEyeContact(接触,交流)
Everyconversationalistbelievesthattheperfectwaytoengageaudiencesistomaintaineyecontactwiththem.Lookingatpeopleintheeyetendstodrawtheirwaveringattentionstotheconversationathand.Ifyouwanttoimproveyourmunicationskillsremembertoengageyouraudiencesbydirectlylookingatthem.Eyecontacttiesthespeakertothemasseswithaninvisibletether(范围,限度)andforcesthemtopayattention.Withouteyecontactverbalmunicationisrenderedpletelyfutile
4.MindYourBodyLanguage
Thebodydoesnotneedaverballanguagetoexpressitself.Itcanmunicatevia(道路)mannerisms,expressionsandphysicalconduct.Whenitestoeffectivemunicationskills,excellentverbalcontentiscoupledwithsoundphysicalexpressiontorenderanengagingeffectontheaudiences.Animatedgestures,livelyexpressionsandphysicalmannerismsareexcellentwaysofconveyingagivenidea.Adeadpanexpressiononlyconveysalacklustreattitudeandboredom,whereas(却,反而)ananimated(精力旺盛的)frontismoreengagingtowitness.Ifyouwanttoimproveyourmunicationskills,youshouldstartobservingotherswhiletheyspeak.Talktoyourselfandcheckyourbodylanguageinthemirrortoascertain(查明,弄清)yourflawsandimproveuponthem.
5.BeAGoodListener
Communicationishardlyaone-wayprocess(经历,过程).Listeningisasimportantasspeaking.Infact,mostmunicationexpertsbelievethatanidealmunicatortendstolistenmorethanspeak.Whileitishearteningtobeabletoalleviateinterpersonaltroublesbytalkingitout,sometimeslisteningalonedoesthetrick.Notonlydoesitmakethemunicatingexperiencericherbutalsomakesyoumoresympathetic(有同情心的)totheotherperson
6.ClearEnunciation(阐明,发表)
Somepeopletendtodrawtheirsyllables(音节)outmakingtheirspeechpleteinprehensible(费解的)tothelistener.Whiletheideaofmunicationisextremelyimportant,oneshouldn’ttreatthemediumofmunicationlightlyCrispenunciationaddstoeffectivedelivery。
Notonlydotheserequireathoroughunderstandingofthespokenword,butalsorequiremuchworkonimprovingspeechdefects.
7.CrispPronunciation
Whenitestoaddressinganaudience,amunicatormusthaveanimpeable
pronunciationtohavethedesiredeffect.Veryoften,badpronunciationhasmadelaughingstocksoutofthemostablespeakers.Themethodbywhichthemediumcarriesthemessagetendstoshapetheoverallmeaningaordingly.Ifyourpronunciationneedsimprovement,don’tbeshyaskingforhelp.Oneshouldcorrecttheirpronunciationinordertomaintaintheireffectivenessasgoodmunicators
8.Enhance(增长)YourVocabulary
Thoroughknowledgeofthemediuminvolvesequippingyourvocabularywithnewwords.Many-a-timespeoplehaveendedupusinghigh-soundingwordsinappropriately(不适当的)onlytofacepublicembarrassment.Buildingafortresswithoutastrongfoundationwillonlyresultineventualfailure.Learningnewwordsisaninvaluableadditiontoyourmunicationskills.Notonlydoesitincreaseyourverbalprowess(威力,本事),italsohelpsyoumunicatebetter.Coherentlanguageisanassuredwinnerinregisteringtheintendedmeaningandengagingaudienceseffectively.
9.FollowOtherEfficientCommunicators
Humanbeingsareexcellentemulators(竞争者)Weliveourlivesemulatingothersandlearnnewthingsintheprocess.Whenitestopickingupideasforimprovingone’smunicationskills,thebestapproachistolearnfromothers.Itisonlybyobservingotherscanyouhopetopickupsomehelpfulpointersforyourself.Observingotherspeakerswillhelpinculcatetheirgoodpointsintoyourrepertoire(演奏节目).Seekthepanyofgoodmunicatorsandobservethemclosely.Emulatetheirspeakingstylesandmannerisms.Withtime,notonlywillyoubeabletomunicatelikethem,butyouwillbeabletodevelopyourowndistinctivestyle
10.StudyfromSelf-HelpBooks
Self-helpbooksareexcellentguidestoimprovinganygivenskill.Effectivemunicatorsenclosetheirtransformingexperiencesinsuchbookstohelplessfortunatepeoplegainbenefitsofbetterspeech.Withahostoftitlestochoosefrom,onecanresorttoemulatingtipsmentionedinthesebookstohelpmaketheirmunicationskillsbetter.Thestep-by-stepinstructionsgiveninthesebookslendanextensiveinsightintotheideaofmunicationtohelpimprovetheminnotime
Let’stalkaboutinterpersonalrelationship.
Withthedevelopmentofoursociety,theconnectionbetweenpeoplebeesinevitable.Peopleneedtomunicatewithothersaslongastheyareintheworld.Asaresult,theinterpersonalrelationshipbeesmoreandmoreimportant.Firstofall,agoodinterpersonalrelationpromotepeoplebeesuessful.Throughthehumanhistory,wecanrealizethatnoonecandoeverythingwellandbeesuessfulalone.Mostofthegreatmenhaveagoodrelationshipamongpeople.Secondly,agoodinterpersonalrelationcanhelppeopleliveahappylife.Livinginahappyenvironmentneedpeoplekeepagoodrelationshipwiththepeoplearound.Itiscertainlythatpeoplewillreceivehappinessintheend.
Herearesometipsforustoimproveourmunicationskills:
1.Smilehasmagicpower.Ifwewantotherstolikeus,wemustalwaysremembertosmile,becausenoonewantstoseeafacefullofdark.
2.learnfromeachother.it’susefultolearndifferentstrongpoints,andwecanlearnhowtoworkinagroup.
3.reallylisten—topayattentionandlettheotherpersontalkwithoutinterrupting.Goodlisteningcanreallyenableustogetclosertoeachother.
4.Storiesarepowerful.Itmighthelpyoueupwithtopicstodiscuss,andyoucanalsoturnsmalltalkintoconversationbysharinginformation.
5.doafaver,wewillfindpleasureinhelpingpeople,ofcourse,helpingothersishelpingourselves.
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