1、英语短文Loving someone doesnt always mean keeping them; sometimes it also means you have to let them go. Giving up doesnt always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to move on.爱一个人不总意味着占有，有时也意味着你必须放手；放弃并不意味着软弱，有时也意味着你足够坚强继续走。2011-1-1 14:42 上传下载附件 (6.5 KB) It takes some of us
2、 a long time to recover from a broken heart. The first person you fall in love with is often not the right person, but is usually the most difficult to recover from. I understand how when the failure of love happen to us, our entire impression of the love can change. For this reason I think it is mo
3、st important that you keep your positive outlook. Take some comfort in the thought that thousands of people are in the same boat with you every day, and you will live through it and you will be a better person for having done so.对一些人来说，从失恋阴影中走出来需要相当一段时间。你第一个爱上的人常常是不适合你的人，但通常是最让你难以从失恋中走出来的人。我完全理解当失恋发
4、身在我们身上时我们对爱的认识会发生改变。所以我想最重要的是要保持积极乐观的态度。要自我安慰一下，告诉自己每天有很多人和你同病相怜，同时相信自己会挺过去的，相信你会因为经历了这段感情而更加成熟。Forget about the past and set some new dreams for the future. The best way to recover from a broken heart is to get busy. Work hard, get involved in as many things as possible and try to make some new fri
5、ends. You are still young and you have plenty of time to meet the right person. Dont give up hope; just put your energy into achieving the other things you want from life. The person whose heart gets broken in a romance is usually the one who bounces back the best, and in most cases is the one who w
6、ill do something successful in the other areas of life. You will benefit from this experience in the end.要学会忘掉过去，重塑梦想。从失恋中走出来的最好办法就是让自己忙碌起来。这个时候要努力工作，多去参与一些事情，同时要多交一些新朋友。你还年轻，有足够的时间碰到合适的人。不要放弃希望，多花精力去实现自己真正想要的目标。失恋的人最容易卷土重来，在大多数情况下会在其它方面取得成功。你最终会从失恋经历中获益。英语口语初级：失恋英语口语考试网 更新：2010-9-15 编辑：梓淇感情若有波折，难免会
7、影响到工作时的心情。失恋了，和关系好的同事说说，从同事那里得到的鼓励会改善你工作时的心情的。Mark: Hi, Jack, how have you been?马克：嗨！杰克，最近怎样？Jack: Not very well.杰克：不怎么样。Mark: Why? Looks like youre feeling very down! What happened?马克：怎么了？你看上去心情不好啊，发生什么事了？Jack: Nothing.杰克：没什么。Mark: Come on. For a man whos feeling so down, therere usually two reason
8、s. Either his career is going downhill, or he has a broken heart. Since youre so successful, it must be the other.马克：说嘛。一个男人心情不好一般有两个原因，不是他的事业滑坡，就是他感情出问题了。既然你事业这么成功，那一定是另一个原因了。Jack: Well, youre right. I just broke up with Jane.杰克：没错，你说得对。我刚和简分手。Mark: Oh, Im sorry. I thought you two were made for eac
9、h other.马克：哦，我很抱歉。我觉得你们俩是天生一对呀。Jack: Well, you never know. Im ready for a commitment and want to settle down, but she says she wants to pursue her career while shes still young.杰克：哎，谁知道呢。我已经准备好承诺这一生，想定下来，可是她说她想趁年轻追求事业。Mark: Well, you cant blame her. Its always difficult to choose between career and
10、family.马克：你不能怪她。事业与家庭两者之间一直是很难选择的。Jack: Maybe youre right.杰克：也许你说得对。Mark: Jack, I dont know what to say to comfort you, but cheer up! Theres plenty of fish in the sea and youll find your soul mate, your perfect match!马克：杰克，我不知道怎么安慰你，但是振作起来！天涯何处无芳草，你会找到你的知音，你的那一半的！Jack: Yeah, but its hard to forget h
11、er at the moment. You know, we were together for almost five years. Its really hard杰克：是啊，但是现在很难忘记她。知道吗，我们在一起快5年了，真是太难了。Gary: Hi, Mike, were having a party tonight, wanna come join us? You can bring your girlfriend.加里：嗨，迈克，我们今晚开派对，想来吗？可以把你女朋友带上。Mike: WellIm breaking up with Cathy.迈克：恩我要和凯茜分手了。Gary: W
12、hat happened? Did you have a fight?加里：怎么了？你们吵架了？Mike: No. Shes really a very nice girl迈克：没有，她真的是个好女孩。Gary: Yeah, she is. Shes pretty, caring, and easy-going. And shes a great cook! Shes a gem!加里：是啊，她漂亮、会关心人而且容易相处。她的厨艺一流，简直是个宝贝哦。Mike: Well, youre right. But sometimes shes too caring well no shes just
13、 possessive and uh I kind of want a breakyou knowfor some room for myself.迈克：你说得没错。但是有时候她太关心我了，不，是占有欲太强了。我想要分开一段时间，想要给自己一些空间。Gary: Oh?! Did you talk with her about it?加里：哦？你和她谈过了吗？Mike: Ive tried, but it didnt work.迈克：我试过了，但是没用。Gary: Oh. So, when are you going to tell her?加里：哦，那么你打算什么时候告诉她？Mike: May
14、be tonight. I dont know. I dont know how to tell her.迈克：可能今天晚上吧。我不知道，我不知道该怎么说。Gary: I know shes head over heels in love with you. Shell be badly hurt!加里：我知道她非常爱你，她会很伤心的。Mike: I know.迈克：我知道。 致失恋的朋友：如何走出失恋的阴霾老张侃英语 时间：3个月前 | 阅读：2638次 | 划词已启用 爱一个人不总意味着占有，有时也意味着你必须放手；放弃并不意味着软弱，有时也意味着你足够坚强继续走。感情的事不能勉强，希望本
15、文给失恋的朋友一些意见。It takes some of us a long time to recover from a broken heart. The first person you fall in love with is often not the right person, but is usually the most difficult to recover from. 对一些人来说，从失恋阴影中走出来需要相当一段时间。你第一个爱上的人常常是不适合你的人，但通常是最让你难以从失恋中走出来的人。I understand how when the failure of love
16、 happen to us, our entire impression of the love can change. For this reason I think it is most important that you keep your positive outlook. 我完全理解当失恋发身在我们身上时我们对爱的认识会发生改变。所以我想最重要的是要保持积极乐观的态度。Take some comfort in the thought that thousands of people are in the same boat with you every day, and you w
17、ill live through it and you will be a better person for having done so.要自我安慰一下，告诉自己每天有很多人和你同病相怜，同时相信自己会挺过去的，相信你会因为经历了这段感情而更加成熟。Forget about the past and set some new dreams for the future. The best way to recover from a broken heart is to get busy. 要学会忘掉过去，重塑梦想。从失恋中走出来的最好办法就是让自己忙碌起来。Work hard, get i
18、nvolved in as many things as possible and try to make some new friends. You are still young and you have plenty of time to meet the right person. 这个时候要努力工作，多去参与一些事情，同时要多交一些新朋友。你还年轻，有足够的时间碰到合适的人。Dont give up hope; just put your energy into achieving the other things you want from life. The person who
19、se heart gets broken in a romance is usually the one who bounces back the best, and in most cases is the one who will do something successful in the other areas of life. 不要放弃希望，多花精力去实现自己真正想要的目标。失恋的人最容易卷土重来，在大多数情况下会在其它方面取得成功。You will benefit from this experience in the end.你最终会从失恋经历中获益。沪江网校 英语四六级冲关班
20、我们一起努力Breaking up is never easy. Here are some tips to help you get through this very painful time. For more detailed information about surviving a break up, you may want to read my article, Break-ups: How To Survive Them* Acknowledge the loss* Let yourself feel your feelings* Be with the pain* Know
21、 that you are not alone* Get help if you need it* Give yourself time to heal* Remember that the healing process has its progressions and regressions* Breathe!* Get lots of rest* Stick to your schedule* Keep decision-making to a minimum* Its OK to go through the motions in slow motion* Its OK to need
22、 comforting* Seek the support of others* Find ways to be touched and hugged* Find others who have survived a similar loss* Surround yourself with things that are alive* Know that Sundays are the worst* Earlier losses may surface* Be gentle with yourself* Heal at your own pace* Its OK to feel afraid,
23、 depressed, angry, guilty, or anything else that you feel* Feed yourself nutrious food* Remember, youre vulnerable* Pamper yourself* Keep a journal* Let yourself heal fully* Affirm yourself* Laugh!* Let go of the loss* Praise yourself for having the courage to relate* Start anew* Invite new people i
24、nto your life* Develop new interests, and reconnect with your old ones* Connect with old friends失恋向来都不轻松。这里有些能帮你度过难关的点子。想要了解更多有关摆脱失恋痛苦的信息，不妨读读拙作失恋：如何从中解脱。* 直面失恋的现状* 尽情体会自己的感受* 心痛既来之则安之* 须知你并不孤独* 如果需要，尽管求助于人* 给自己充分的时间去恢复* 谨记恢复过程必然有进有退* 呼吸放松！* 充分休息* 恪守自制的时间表* 尽可能不留给自己做决定的机会* 如果进展缓慢，这很正常* 如果觉得需要被安慰，这也很
25、正常* 寻求他人的支持* 设法接受别人的抚摸和拥抱* 去找和你具有类似失恋遭遇的人* 使自己处于有朝气的事物中间* 当知礼拜天才是最糟的日子* 失恋的痛苦可能会重现* 对自己友善一些* 顺其自然地恢复* 如果感到害怕、沮丧、气愤、内疚或有其他感受，这都没什么* 吃营养的东西* 谨记，你是脆弱的* 放纵一下自己* 写写日记* 让自己充分恢复* 坚信自己* 笑起来！* 让失恋随它去吧* 鼓足勇气把心里话讲出来* 从新开始* 邀请新面孔走进你的生活* 发展一些新爱好，并重新拾起旧的爱好* 联系一下老友又是奇闻：失恋者可以休假治疗心伤，称作“失恋假”。另附：失恋的英语对话 2008-02-01 10:
26、03.失恋了，会影响员工的工作效率，与其让他/她工作，倒不如让他/她放假治疗心伤。这老板真有创意！年纪越大，放假的天数越长。如果七八十岁的人失恋，估计可以放假一年治伤。如果你想放假，那就假装“失恋”吧！日本公司推出“失恋假”Japanese firm offers heartache leave for staff 2008-01-29 17:13 词语注释：lovelorn：失恋（的）heartache：伤心；心痛；痛心take paid time：带薪休假cry themselves out：痛哭return to work refreshed：重振精神回到工作岗位take materni
27、ty leave：休产假take three days off：休三天假Lovelorn staff at a Japanese marketing company can take paid time offLovelorn staff at a Japanese marketing company can take paid time off after a bad break-up with a partner, and more heartache leave on offer when they get older.Tokyo-based Hime & Company, which
28、also gives staff paid time off to hit the shops during sales season, says heartache leave allows staff to cry themselves out and return to work refreshed. Not everyone needs to take maternity leave but with heartbreak, everyone needs time off, just like when you get sick, CEO Miki Hiradate said.Staf
29、f aged 24 years or younger can take one day off per year, while those between 25 and 29 can take two days off and those older can take three days off, the company said.Women in their 20s can find their next love quickly, but its tougher for women in their 30s, and their break-ups tend to be more ser
30、ious, Hiradate said.Hime & Company staff can also take two mornings off twice a year as sales shopping leave, so they can race to stores to hunt for bargains.Before, women could take half-days off to go to sales, but youd have to hide your shopping bags in lockers by the train station, Hiradate said
31、.But with paid leave, we dont have to feel guilty about bringing our shopping bags to work, and we can enjoy the best part about sales shopping - talking about our purchases afterwards.日本一家营销公司日前规定，员工失恋后可享受带薪假期。而且随着年龄的增长，这种“疗伤假”会增多。这家位于东京的“姬会社”还在促销旺季为员工提供了购物假。公司称“疗伤假”能让员工在痛哭之后重振精神回到工作岗位。该公司的首席执行官平官美吉说：“并不是人人都需要休产假，但如果失恋了，无论谁都需要休息，就像生病一样。”该公司规定，24岁及24岁以下的员工每年有一天的失恋假；25岁至29岁的员工可享受两天失恋假；29岁以上的员工可休假三天。平官美吉说：“20多岁的女性失恋
